If the universe made any kind of sense at all, you would NOT be reading this email right now.

I mean, when you take a look at my ridiculous life path…

I’ve been kicked out of India after almost setting off an international incident.

I’ve taken part in Ayahuasca ceremonies deep inside the Costa Rican jungle.

I’ve had my nose broken in a heavyweight boxing fight in Russia.

I’ve read 1,200 books.

I’ve worked as a nightclub bouncer for 13 years.

I’ve spent or lost more than $100,000 in a single day - twice!

I’ve received a community service medal from the Queen of England.

I’ve started two businesses, including a worldwide record label with global distribution.

I’ve accumulated hundreds of thousands of followers on social media.

I’ve raised tens of thousands of dollars for various charities.

…and I’m only 32 years old!

A lot of different things had to happen for me to be sitting right here today writing this newsletter, and for YOU to be here reading it.

It certainly wasn’t inevitable, and it certainly wasn’t a straight line.

So when a book like The Pathless Path came along, I INSTANTLY connected with it.

I just…GOT IT.

The author, Paul Millerd, has traveled an interesting life path as well - giving up a well-paying consulting gig at McKinsey after experiencing an acute crisis of meaning and moving halfway across the world in pursuit of freedom and creative expression - and the result…thankfully, astoundingly, unexpectedly…is this book.

It’s for everyone who believes that there’s more to life than just going through the motions.

More than just living with the “default” settings.

More than we’re led to believe is possible for us.

I was such a big fan of this book that I wrote a complete breakdown of The Pathless Path for the Stairway to Wisdom, highlights of which I’ll share with you here in this email.

The breakdown itself is about 9,300 words, covering all the Key Ideas, Book Notes, Action Steps, and more.

It’ll only take you about 36 minutes to read the whole thing, and in it, you’ll learn how to break free of societal expectations, “prototype your escape,” pursue meaning instead of money (but also earn enough to survive and be happy), and much more besides.

You can read the full breakdown here, but I’ll give you a little preview in this email so you can decide whether to check out the full one later.

Again, totally free.

I should actually say “free for right NOW,” because it’s going back behind the paywall very shortly.

Then it’s just for members only at the Stairway to Wisdom. 

Alright now, let’s make our way down…

This Book is For:

*People who are experiencing a nagging, persistent sense of lack or dissatisfaction with the current trajectory of their lives, and who want to take a peek at the map of someone who's traveled just a little bit further ahead.

*Corporate wage slaves who want to make a change in their lives, but are unsure of what that might look like, what to expect if they do, their chances of success after they take the leap, and how the important people in their lives might feel about it.

*Artists and professionals in all fields who have ever been through a crisis of meaning and who consistently struggle to separate their sense of self-worth from what they "do" or what they produce.

*Literally anyone and everyone who believes that reality is negotiable and that the future doesn't necessarily have to look like the present.

Summary:

The chances of a perfect life path being successfully scripted for you by someone else are precisely zero. We exist in a community of others, but individually, we are completely alone and our lives are up to us.

More than that, we have the opportunity - the ability - to curate our own reality every moment, and by definition, no one can do this for us. We think that the meaning of life is "out there" and that we have to find out what it is. When in reality, it is Life that asks us the questions, and how we live is our answer.

In the same way, Paul Millerd doesn't have any answers. There are no hacks or step-by-step formulas in this book, no mandatory reading lists, and no milestones you have to hit in order to live a meaningful life.

Instead, The Pathless Path is about the invisible scripts that shepherd us into prescribed modes of living and being in the world; it's about freedom and creativity; it's about money, meaning, and work; and it's about being fearlessly, unapologetically yourself, in a world that shouts back, "You can't do that!"

It's also about going somewhere, but not following anything. Getting lost, and finding yourself. Leaving, but never arriving.

The book itself kind of meanders between Paul's personal story of leaving his high-profile career in search of work that matters, the history of work in our society, the meaning of money, entrepreneurship, alternative careers and lifestyles, and more. There's a Table of Contents, sure, but it doesn't tell you any more about the experience of reading the book than a map of Athens would tell you about ambling through the ruins of the Acropolis.

Mostly, though, it's about looking at the ladder you're climbing right now and asking yourself whether it's actually leaning against the right building. So if you've ever woken up in the wrong life (and who hasn't?), this is one of the books you may want to read next.

The default path - doing what everyone is doing, living the same day, week, month, and year that everyone else is living over and over again - used to work for most people. But this future that we're building together is not a default future. We have so many more options and opportunities - possibilities for our lives that we can explore and take to their logical conclusions. The default path is dying away, and we have to come to terms with our own freedom and what we want to do with it.

You might ask why, if the default path is so horrible, so many people choose to walk along it. The answer is that it's not so bad. It's actually pretty comfortable, it doesn't come with a whole lot of surprises, and you may even find moments of happiness - or something close to it - that allows you to shut out the awareness that there's so much more of you being left unexpressed.

I mean, here you are, the universe's most spectacular creation, and you're just kinda getting by. Living a "good enough" life, surviving day to day, coasting through a default world you never made.

The Pathless Path is Paul Millerd's answer to the question of what makes meaningful work and what we might aspire to in our lives. But you and I can never be Paul Millerd. His life is taken. You can only be yourself, and I can only be myself. The pathless path is narrow, wide enough for only one person. You.

READ THE FULL BOOK BREAKDOWN HERE

Key Ideas:

#1: Heed the Call to Adventure

Milan Kundera said that we live everything as it comes, without warning, like an actor going on cold. Life is fired at us point-blank, and we feel that this is true, so we tend to fall into comfortable, "safe" patterns of living because the uncertainty of life is, by definition, unsafe.

What Paul Millerd calls the default path is the "safest" route through life. It might get you to the end of your life without any major turbulence - less danger, less social disapproval, less financial insecurity, etc. - but it's no way to live. Not for a significant number of us, anyway.

The default path is synonymous with the "script" that society tries to convince us is the only way in which we can allow our lives to play out. It's just "what's done" by respectable people, and it involves such relatively uncontroversial things as pleasing your teachers and your parents all the way through school, jamming your days and evenings with extracurriculars and resume stuffers that look good on a university application, making it into that prestigious college and getting your $200,000 degree (that you'll be paying for until you're 40), getting an "okay" job, putting your head down for the next 40 years, and then dying with that gold watch they slap on you in honor of all your years of "faithful service."

Before I go on, I should clear something up: There's nothing necessarily "wrong" with the default path. Not everyone who travels along that road is a mindless sheep, forfeiting their existence for the false freedom of a 2-day weekend and a 401K. For some perfectly fulfilling, profitable careers, you need to go to college. I went to university for philosophy, and I don't regret it one bit. In fact, I'm using my degree right now as I'm writing this breakdown!

But there's more to life than internal memos, meetings, and team-building exercises. Such things may populate the "real world" you've been living in until now, but you don't have to live in it. You can embrace the pathless path and live consciously, and intentionally, like an actor who has read further ahead in the script than the other players and who's ready to give the greatest performance of their life.

The writer and mythologist Joseph Campbell has done a great deal to shape my thinking about the pathless path as well. The default path may have worked for Paul Millerd's parents (and mine too), but we're living in the future now, and 'we must be willing to let go of the life we planned so as to have the life that is waiting for us,' as Campbell has written. He also said the following, which idea will become even more clear in Key Idea #3 below:

Joseph Campbell is also largely responsible for moving the concept of the "hero's journey" into the public consciousness. Famously, George Lucas read Campbell's book, The Hero with a Thousand Faces more than 100 times, and you can see elements of the hero's journey all throughout Star Wars - and throughout virtually every other great story ever told.

The Hero starts off in what's called the Ordinary World, where he lives relatively unconsciously in a world he never made. In Star Wars, this would be Luke Skywalker living a normal life on his home planet. For the rest of us, it's the default path where we're told to quiet down, conform, and not make any sudden moves.

But then comes the Call to Adventure - usually in the form of a crisis - that shocks the hero into full wakefulness and makes him conscious of the existence of the Extraordinary World, beyond the confines of his original existence. I won't rehash the entire plot of Star Wars, but all the elements of the hero's journey are present there, as they are in our own lives as well.

Right now, most people are living in the Ordinary World. The default path is the water that they're swimming in, and they can't see a better way to live, because everyone around them is swimming in the same water.

Suddenly, however, a Mentor appears and shows us the way to the brighter, more vivid, more meaningful life that's available to us if we would only break free from the Ordinary World and step out into the Extraordinary World. For Luke Skywalker, that Mentor was Obi-Wan Kenobi, but in The Pathless Path, it's Paul Millerd.

Now, obviously, the Extraordinary World is not a safe place. You will run into Enemies; you will experience Trials; you may even face your own All is Lost Moment when the extreme challenges and difficulties of your new life make you long to return to the comforts of the Ordinary World.

This is normal. It's also one of the only guarantees you will ever receive along the pathless path. Literally by definition, the route is uncertain, your chances of success variable, and subject to the vicissitudes of fortune. But is the purpose of your one and only life just to coast by? Just to arrive at the moment of your death completely unscathed? Or is the purpose of your life to be fully alive?

The default path will almost always be there for you to return to if you wish (more on this later), but right now, today, the pathless path is calling. Our destination is uncertain, and even our direction can change dramatically, but we make the path by walking. And as Nietzsche advised, do not ask whither it leads; go along it.

#2: A Healthy Beggar is Happier Than an Ailing King

The world will ask you who you are. And if you don't know, the world will tell you. That was actually Carl Jung - I'm not quite as wise as he was - but what he said is painfully true. I've seen it happen too many times to mention, and it never hurts me any less.

I look around and I see people shortchanging themselves in all kinds of ways, abdicating their power to form their own identities, and compressing themselves to fit inside the predetermined molds that society says are the only ones available. This is the default path. In Paul's case, it's part of what made him physically ill, and he's not alone. You are not alone.

The fact is that it feels good to tell people that you're in the Honors program at such and such big-name college. People treat you differently when you walk around in corporate prison clothes (ties have always looked like nooses to me), and most people know about the addictive social approval found in the smiles and visible satisfaction of strangers when they learn that you've accomplished some impressive...thing. Most people would do anything to avoid the "other" look. You know the look I mean.

I've been on the receiving end of both: the looks of admiration and approval when I step out of my sports car holding a thick book in my hands, the looks of derision when I used to show up to work as a nighttime security guard at a city hospital. But the funny thing is that in that both situations and at all times in my life, I was always just...me!

The parts of me that made me a valuable person, someone entitled to a feeling of self-worth and positive regard, were with me the whole time, no matter what job I had or what kind of car I drove.

Every single person in the world is infinitely deserving of basic human dignity and respect, and that is your inalienable right so long as you exist on this great green earth. The default path, however, conspires to make you forget that fact, and it literally made Paul Millerd sick.

The philosopher Arthur Schopenhauer said that "a happy beggar is happier than an ailing king," and that's certainly been the experience of people like Paul and myself. He and I would likely give up everything we have just to hold onto our health and vitality, and the tradeoffs that the default path asks us to make in this area are tradeoffs we're not willing to make. The downside is just too horrible, and the "upside" is hardly worth having.

Again, there's nothing wrong with driving a fancy car or being a CEO. Just like there's nothing wrong with spending the day pursuing your artistic ambitions, or working a decent, honorable job, even one that pays $10/hour or less. There are as many good lives available as there are people to live them.

In his book, Die With Zero, investor Bill Perkins discusses the delicate balance between three of your most important resources in life: your time, your money, and your health. His observation is that all three resources rarely show up in one person's life all at the same time.

When you're young, you may have to give up some time (and even some health) in order to have more money later. It's just that it makes zero sense to spend all your time, and deplete all your health, just to buy it all back in the future when you find yourself at death's door.

Any kind of health challenge is typically accompanied by a radical refocusing on what's really important in life. When you're sick, the only thing you want is to get better, and there's no compensation package or investment plan that can make you forget that you used to be young, healthy, and free.

The sooner you realize this the better: the healthy person wants ten thousand things; the sick person wants just one.

#3: The Adjacent Possible

Picture everyone you know, all standing together inside the same room. They don't seem too uncomfortable - they're even making light conversation, and some even look like they're enjoying themselves - but you start to notice that they all kind of look the same, talk in the same way, believe the same things, etc.

After a while, you realize that you're the only person in that whole room who actually notices a door leading somewhere else.

In fact, now you begin to think that it's strange that no one else is even looking for a way out. They're just kind of there, existing. The fact is that they have either never wondered about the possibility of any other kind of existence, or they do in fact know that there's a door that leads to a different room (or to places unknown) but they're afraid to make their exit.

Now imagine that somehow, you manage to overcome any anxiety you may feel about leaving that room with everyone you know inside and you actually do push through that door. What's on the other side?

You have just stepped into the adjacent possible and taken your first step along the pathless path. That second room you've entered will look completely different from any second room that I would enter, or Paul Millerd would enter, or virtually anyone else on the planet. But, in all cases, there exist a multitude of different doors, each leading out into a series of different rooms - different lives - and you know what?

The whole world is like that. We live in a universe of infinite possibilities, and almost like a video game, when you make one choice, open one door, the room you've just left fades into nothingness again and you must confront the newest set of choices you've just made possible for your life. We are always collapsing our own wave functions with each and every choice we make.

If you think that's a terrifying prospect, well that's because it absolutely is! The existentialist philosopher Jean-Paul Sartre said that human beings are condemned to be free, and the "terror of freedom" is kind of what he meant.

In life, so many of the doors we've just closed will be locked behind us. We move forward into our uncertain futures, with no guarantee that we can ever return to where we started from. And it's so much easier to just stay in that first room, to say, "You know what, this is good enough. It's easier. I think I'll just stay here with everyone else."

Worse still, we learn from the people around us that the first room "isn't so bad." We learn that it's easier not to have a deeper conversation with oneself. Paul Millerd felt the same way, of course. He started off in that first room with the rest of us! And he overstayed his welcome there because:

READ 2 MORE KEY IDEAS HERE

Book Notes:

READ 23 MORE BOOK NOTES HERE

Action Steps:

So you've finished reading. What do you do now?

Reading for pleasure is great, and I wholeheartedly support it. However, I am intensely practical when I'm reading for a particular purpose. I want a result. I want to take what I've learned and apply it to my one and only life to make it better!

Because that's really what the Great Books all say. They all say: "You must change your life!" So here, below, are some suggestions for how you can apply the wisdom found in this breakdown to improve your actual life.

Please commit to taking massive action on this immediately! Acting on what you've learned here today will also help you solidify it in your long-term memory. So there's a double benefit! Let's begin...

#1: Make the Path by Walking

I recognize the absurdity of outlining Action Steps for following the pathless path, but bear with me here.

In fact, I'm going to direct you to Kyle Kowalski's excellent book summary of The Pathless Path, where he takes Paul's suggestions from Chapter 10 about how you can embrace the spirit of the pathless path and puts them into this handy infographic:

READ THE FULL BREAKDOWN HERE HERE

"The path to success is to take massive, determined action."

-Tony Robbins

About the Author:

Paul is a self-described "curious human" who spent more than fifteen years trying to play a game that he wasn't designed to win. Walking away from the "default path" of success, including a good paycheck, impressive credentials, and unlimited career options, he starts from scratch, creating space in his life. Over a number of years, he discovers a different way of thinking about the role of work in our lives, which he calls The Pathless Path. This path doesn't make him rich with money but does make him wildly rich in time, connections, and meaning.

Additional Resources:

Think-Boundless.com | Main Website

Boundless by Paul Millerd | Newsletter

Boundless Reads | Suggested Reading

The Pathless Path Podcast | Listen Now

Book Summary: The Pathless Path | Sloww

Making, Not Finding, Your Way | Charlie Becker

This Book on Amazon:

The Pathless Path, by Paul Millerd

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Excellent Sheep, by William Deresiewicz

Put Your Ass Where Your Heart Wants to Be, by Steven Pressfield

The Outsider, by Colin Wilson

The Psychology of Money, by Morgan Housel

Die With Zero, by Bill Perkins

Bullshit Jobs, by David Graeber

Hell Yeah or No, by Derek Sivers

The Four-Hour Workweek, by Tim Ferriss

Vagabonding, by Rolf Potts

Ok, that’s it for now…

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All the best,

Matt Karamazov

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