“You never change things by fighting the existing reality. To change something, build a new model that makes the existing model obsolete.”
“What man actually needs is not a tensionless state, but rather the striving and struggling for a worthwhile goal, a freely chosen task.”
“Breakthroughs are not born from certainty - they’re born from unreasonable goals, urgent timelines, and emotionally compelling reasons why.
Here’s what most people never understand: The key to exponential growth isn’t having the perfect plan. It’s having a massive, seemingly impossible target - one that forces you to think, operate, and execute differently.”
“Set a goal that redefines the game, create powerful emotional reasons that pull you through inevitable challenges, and set a deadline that doesn’t give you the luxury of procrastination.”
“A goal properly set is halfway reached.”
“The most common mistake of a smart engineer is to optimize a thing that should not exist.”
“Rarely is a business not only focusing on what matters and what can scale but also systematically weeding out all that ‘should not exist,’ which can never scale.”
“The hefty price for accepting information uncritically is that we go through life unaware that what we’ve accepted as impossible may in fact be quite possible.”
“To effectively scale, you build a simple system focused on the highest signal. You cannot scale a complex and contradicting system. Most people and most companies are unwilling to choose a focused path.”
“The goal shapes the process. When you change the goal, you change the process. Making your goal massive - even seemingly impossible - forces you to find a much better path, including more effective partners.”
“You can expect the future to take a definite form, or you can treat it as hazily uncertain. If you treat the future as something definite, it makes sense to understand it in advance and to work to shape it. But if you expect an indefinite future ruled by randomness, you’ll give up on trying to master it.
Indefinite attitudes to the future explain what’s most dysfunctional in our world today. Process trumps substance: when people lack concrete plans to carry out, they use formal rules to assemble a portfolio of various options.”
“We can spend weeks, months, even years laboring, trying to change our attitudes and behaviors and not even begin to approach the phenomenon of change that occurs spontaneously when we see things differently.”
“The goal determines the process - what is signal and what is noise. The more effective you are at framing your future, the more powerful your process will be in the present.”
“The McKinsey study found the same thing Elon’s Five-Step Algorithm teaches: after you’ve simplified your focus, you’ve got to accelerate like crazy. Fast-feedback loops are where rapid growth happens, and without rapid growth, you’re stagnant and stalling.”
“The future is better viewed as a psychological and strategic tool, rather than a concrete reality. The purpose of the future is to impact, shape, and direct the present.”
“When it comes to running a company, if you give yourself too much time to do something, you can’t filter the present hard enough. The purpose of the impossible goal and deadline is that the filter becomes extremely intense! If you only have 18 months to do what you thought you had 10 to 15 years to accomplish, you can’t waste your time on nonsense.”
“When you apply time as a tool and give yourself far less time than you think you need, you’re forced to find the crux or core bottleneck or constraint to solve much more quickly. By identifying and solving the crux from the beginning, rather than the many false constraints that are noise, you’ll scale radically faster. Few are willing to choose a focused and optimized path.”
“If you want to be exceptional, you can’t engage in average anything.”
“If I could simplify the whole game of power and strategy in one equation, it would all hinge on the capacity to see events around you exactly as they are. The closer your mind is to reality, the better your strategies, your responses in life.”
“I have long believed that if a student of virtually any discipline could avoid ever repeating the same mistake twice - both technical and psychological - he or she would skyrocket to the top of their field.”
“Raising the floor is the crux of scaling. It’s the hardest part, and until you do it, you’re fooling yourself. But once you do it, your growth literally explodes.”
“In order to scale a system, you’ve got to simplify it.”
“Having conflicting goals, dedicating resources to unconnected targets, and accommodating incompatible interests are the luxuries of the rich and powerful, but they make for bad strategy. Strategy is at least as much about what an organization does not do as it is about what it does.”
“The difference between successful people and really successful people is that really successful people say no to almost everything.”
“The primary value and purpose of a goal is its impact on your direction and decisions today. The future is a tool to simplify the present.”
“In an age of infinite leverage, judgement is the most important skill.”
“The first natural advantage of good strategy arises because other organizations often don’t have one. And because they don’t expect you to have one either.”
“You first have to be world class yourself. Tens don’t work for eights.”
“Human beings are works in progress that mistakenly think they’re finished.”
“By the time a student gets to college, he’s spent a decade curating a bewilderingly diverse resume to prepare for a completely unknowable future. Come what may, he’s ready - for nothing in particular.”
“All three dimensions of time - past, present, and future - co-occur in the now. No one dimension of time can truly be a meaningful dimension without the context provided by the other two dimensions.”
“The quality of how we frame our future determines the quality by which we can filter our present experience.
Given that our goals are the primary aspect of our frame, driving our attention and decisions in the present, it makes sense that the quality of our goals determines the quality of our selective attention, or filtering.
This is why impossible goals and impossible deadlines are so powerful. They force extreme filtering in the present, requiring you to let go of all ineffective pathways and select only the most powerful and potent ones.”
There's always a way to succeed in life, no matter who you are or where you come from, but you're never going to find it by following the herd. If the herd knew how to achieve success and get everything they ever wanted, you wouldn't need this book.
Sample Quotes from the Book:
“Give up forced ‘positive thinking’ or ‘motivation’; instead, build a solid foundation of strong self-image, well-defined goals, practical plans, and know-how that naturally produce positive expectancy, initiative, and follow-through. Cultivate REASONED optimism. Have something tangible to believe in and to be excited about - not just excitement itself.”
“In fact, some excellent career or business advice is to pick endeavors because of the type of person the endeavors will force you to become.
An early mentor used to urge people of very limited financial means to commit to the goal of becoming a millionaire, not so much for the money, he explained, but because of the people they would have to become, the positive characteristics and behaviors they would have to develop in order to achieve the financial benchmark.
He was widely misunderstood on this point and perceived by some to be a preacher of greed. What he meant, simply, was:
Big commitment to big goals build big people.”
“College graduates, on average, out-earn non-college graduates by six figures to, at most, a million dollars, lifetime. That IS an argument in favor of a college education, although a million dollars divided over 40 to 60 years of active work is not as gigantic as it sounds stated as a lump sum.
Look closer and here is what you will discover: If college actually prepares you for anything, it is for a job. College does not prepare you to be entrepreneurial, and it certainly does not prepare you to get rich.”
Read the Full Breakdown: No B.S. Guide to Succeeding in Business by Breaking All the Rules, by Dan S. Kennedy
In this book, the eccentric entrepreneur Dan S. Kennedy shares the extreme time management strategies he uses personally to run his multimillion-dollar company, all while successfully safeguarding his schedule and his sanity.
Sample Quotes from the Book:
“There’s a reason why you can’t find a wall clock in a casino to save your life - those folks stealing your money do not want you to be aware of the passing of time.
And that tells you something useful right there: you want to be very aware, all the time, of the passing of time. It is to your advantage to be very conscious of the passage and usage of minutes and hours.”
“Just as the person who cannot tell you where his money goes is forever destined to be poor, the person who cannot tell you where his time goes is forever destined to be unproductive - and, often, poor.”
“This tells you a lot about what you must do in order to achieve maximum success, derive maximum value from your time, and lead the happiest possible life:
You must systematically, aggressively divest yourself of those activities you do not do well and do not do happily, or you must find routine, so as to systematically invest your time (and talent, knowledge, know-how, and other resources) in those things you do extraordinarily well, enjoy doing, and find intellectually stimulating.
I have just described for you a formula for peak personal productivity, as a specialist. And you ought to note that, in every field of enterprise, specialists out-earn generalists ten to one.”
Read the Full Breakdown: No B.S. Time Management for Entrepreneurs, by Dan S. Kennedy
Almost everything you're doing now is a distraction preventing you from making a 10X leap - in revenue, leadership ability, significance, and more. Exponential transformations are actually easier than these small little 2X improvements, and Dr. Benjamin Hardy will prove it to you here in this book.
Sample Quotes from the Book:
“Going 10x means you’re living based on the most intrinsic and exciting future you can imagine. That 10x future becomes your filter for everything you do, and most of your current life can’t make it through that 10x filter.”
“In all aspects of life, the competition is highest for average goals. Not only is the competition highest, but the excitement is lowest and the pathway forward is dramatically more complex and confusing with small and linear goals.
With unrealistic, impossible, or ‘10x’-level goals, the competition is lowest, the excitement is highest, and the pathway forward becomes simple and nonlinear. You stop following the crowd. You shift toward quality rather than quantity and stop competing with anyone.”
“To make a goal effective, you’ve got to test its outer-limits. Push it out as far as you can. Only once you make your goal impossible will you stop operating based on your current assumptions and knowledge.”
Read the Full Breakdown: 10X Is Easier Than 2X, by Dr. Benjamin Hardy
The quality of your questions determines the quality of your life. That's also how you get the absolute most out of any book that you decide to read:
You ask great questions the whole time - as though the book was on trial for its life.
Here in this section are a few questions that can help guide and stimulate your thinking, but try to come up with your own additional questions, especially if you decide to read this book the whole way through...
“What is the goal shaping everything you’re now doing?”
“Do you have multiple competing goals, or one singular purpose driving everything you’re doing?”
“What is the biggest and most important goal you have in your business? What if you gave yourself half the time to achieve it? How would that change your process and focus? What would you be required to eliminate?”
“Take all the pathways and pursuits you’re currently focusing on and mentally scale each of them up to their highest potential. When you do that, does each pathway actually give you what you want?”
“What are you currently saying yes to? Whatever you say yes to reflects your actual floor, not the required floor of your goal.”
“What if the floor for a much higher future actually became your floor? What if you stopped saying yes to stuff that has unbelievable opportunity cost?”
"Judge a man by his questions, rather than by his answers."
So you've finished reading. What do you do now?
Reading for pleasure is great, and I wholeheartedly support it. However, I am intensely practical when I'm reading for a particular purpose. I want a result. I want to take what I've learned and apply it to my one and only life to make it better!
Because that's really what the Great Books all say. They all say: "You must change your life!" So here, below, are some suggestions for how you can apply the wisdom found in this breakdown to improve your actual life.
Please commit to taking massive action on this immediately! Acting on what you've learned here today will also help you solidify it in your long-term memory. So there's a double benefit! Let's begin...
#1: Set a Seemingly-Impossible Goal
Whatever you're thinking, double it. Or triple it. Hell, 100X it for all I care. Just think bigger. The goal you select should challenge you (obviously), and it shouldn't be immediately obvious whether or not you can pull it off.
As you gain more experience in goal-setting, you'll learn your true limits, but you'll also stretch those limits by consistently setting larger goals than you think you can handle. Don't invest money you can't afford to lose, but also don't set some boring target of attracting 10 customers in the next 150 days. Try 150 customers in 10 days. That's more like it!
#2: Set a Seemingly-Impossible Time Limit
The other part of the equation involves dramatically shortening your time horizon. If adding $100,000 in profits to your company is something you feel like you can achieve in the next year, try to do it in 30 days. It's a qualitatively different goal, and the person you'll become by trying to reach it is not the same person you'd become if you had settled for $100K over the next year.
#3: Mentally Scale Up Each Pathway
When you've selected your seemingly-impossible goal, and zeroed in on a seemingly-impossible time limit, evaluate your options for how you'll get there. If your company sells a $50 product, a $500 product, and a $10,000 product, and your goal is a $100,000 increase in revenue, visualize what it would take to get there if you could only do it by focusing on one product.
For example, maybe you could partner with 100 influencers to help you sell the $50 product, at a commission rate of 50%. With those terms, you'd need to sell 4,000 of them to reach $100,000 in revenue (I'm simplifying a ton, obviously), or 40 per influencer, on average. What about partnering with a larger influencer and giving them a higher or lower percentage? Or a flat fee? Or what about running Facebook ads instead? There are sooo many ways to sell a $50 product online - or offline! Consider offline, too!
For the $10,000 product, how many sales calls would it take (assuming you know your numbers here, which you should!) to close 10 extra deals? Who do you know that can introduce you to more prospects? Do you even need sales calls? Think through each path and select the best one, according to your preferences, likelihood of success, and other factors.
#4: List Everything You're Currently Doing
As we've discussed, virtually everything you're doing now is not taking you to your goal - at least not in the most efficient way possible. Sure, updating the testimonials on your website is important, but what if you just 1,000X'd the traffic to your landing page instead? Would the increased conversion percent make up for whatever sales the outdated testimonials are costing you? There are tons of examples like this.
Realistically, only a very few things you're currently doing are absolutely necessary for you to hit your seemingly-impossible goal. In this step though, I just want you to list them all out so you know what they are. Most business owners have no idea.
#5: Delete 90% of What You're Currently Doing
You heard me. Delete almost everything, and only if you notice after the fact that it was completely necessary do you add it back in. If you're currently updating your landing pages, switching to a new email service provider, changing your website URL, posting on six different platforms, doing cold outreach through DMs, cold outreach through email, getting on sales calls, appearing on podcasts, recording YouTube videos, etc., etc., etc...stop it! It's completely unnecessary. And in fact, it's holding you back from scaling exponentially. Drop. Nearly. Everything.
#6: Raise Your Floor
Everything you've just cut is now below your floor, and belongs on your "Stop Doing List." Which is exactly what it sounds like: a list of everything you've chosen not to do. You're not posting on TikTok, you're not running Google ads, you're not selling sixteen different products - you're doing this.
Raising your floor impacts the rest of your life too, as we've discussed. So drop friends and relatives who don't support your dreams or who are otherwise holding you back, shift your thoughts (as much as possible) to success-oriented, positive, uplifting ones that are taking you where you want to go, and resolve to eliminate any other bad habits that are negatively impacting your chances of success. You know what they are, so eliminate them.
#7: Enlist Accountability Partners
As they say, the quality of your future depends on the books you read and the people you surround yourself with, so you need to gather a group of like-minded, supportive individuals around you who want to see you succeed, and who would be proud to help you get there. Might I not-so-subtly suggest joining my private business mastermind?
#8: Make an Iron Promise to Your Future Self
This is the big one. One of the most important pieces of advice that I can give you is that you must never, ever, ever - under any circumstances - lie to yourself or willfully deceive yourself in any way. You must be ruthlessly honest with yourself, and you must tell yourself the truth about your world at all times.
When you do that, you'll come to find that a promise to yourself actually means something. It's an unbreakable bond, something that you refuse to walk back on, no matter what. You have to be able to trust yourself and believe in yourself. So the next time you find yourself facing a mirror, look deep into your own eyes and say (internally or out loud): "I promise to do whatever it takes. I will give this everything I have within me, and I will NOT let you down."
"The path to success is to take massive, determined action.”
Dr. Benjamin Hardy is an organizational psychologist and author of Willpower Doesn’t Work and Personality Isn’t Permanent, along with many others.
His blogs have been read by more than 100 million people and are featured in the Harvard Business Review, The New York Times, Forbes, Fortune, CNBC, and others. For several years, he was the #1 most-read writer on Medium.com. He and his wife, Lauren, are the parents of six kids. They live in Orlando, Florida.
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